"The plan"
So, SLPTG and I agreed that as part of the next step, solution-type thingy, she would do more of coming to my house. I'm typically the one who overextends myself, overdoes and goes to see her. Well, this whole "I'm going to be better about coming over to your house," has done nothing. Well, not nothing. Once in three weeks. I didn't even ask about last night. She didn't bring it up either. However, the subject of the weekend came up and that got her going.
So, there's this double standard that my work, my work and my work really aren't that important (I work a lot). That, I should be able to come over there more. Well, I guess part of it truly is my fault, because for a long time, I sacrificed and went over there. Sucked it up, took the 4 hours of sleep days in a row, didn't complain. But (big but) when I realized it wasn't being reciprocated, rather it was a one way event, I changed. Not drastic, but enough to get noticed, hence the discussion about "I'm going to be better about coming over to your house." Welp. Nothing's changed.
We'll see.

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